What are the signs that your husband is committing adultery?
1) He kept the photo of the woman in his working bag and brought it to work or wherever he went. He did that not just for a day or two, but for a few years.
2) He touched another woman's necklace on the pretext of curiosity, wanting to know more of the necklace, asked her who bought the necklace for her, etc. He leaned so close to her that he almost touched her chin and had a very clear view of her breast neckline. He did all these in public, right in front of you and couldn't care less that you, his wife is watching them at just 2 feet away.
3) During your most intimate moment when you were having sexual intercourse with him, he would start to talk about how he had sex with his ex-girlfriends, telling you to the extent what their vagina were like. He could do these not just once or twice, but for several years.
4) When you found the love letters written by his ex-girlfriends hidden in some closet, and he angrily snatched them from you and warned you never to touch his things again.
5) When you were scolded and frowned upon for every single thing (right or wrong or sick) that you did.
6) When you talked to him to express your feelings, opinions, etc and he signalled his hand to ask you to go away and said," Up to you what you want to think/feel." In contrast, he expects you to sit down quietly and listen to his opinions, grouses, feelings, likes, dislikes about everything and anything for hours, for years.
7) When you were stricken with a disease and were unable to walk, and he refused to send you to the see a doctor with the excuse he had to attend a meeting at work. In contrast, when a friend not a close friend was hospitalised, he would took a day off from work to visit him. When a church member's relative passed away, he would took a day off to attend a funeral in another state.
8) When you asked him to get you a birthday present, and he simply refused to do so not even a cake. He couldn't be bothered even when you asked him every year for 20 years.
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